I am 25 and my husband is 48. We have now been married just over 5 years. Since our first baby was born about 4 years back my husband's sex drive has deteriorated. We previously would make love 4 or 5 times a week but for the past 18 months we make love maybe once a month and on these ocasions he finds it difficult to get and maintain an erection. I have tried talking to him about this every few months to see what's going on and he always says that he is stressed out about work or is just tired. My concern is that he now has erectile dysfunction. I have on a number of occasions asked him if i can arrange some cialis through the internet but he says no and i must stop suggesting that he needs cialis. Now we make love less frequently and i am wondering whather i should give him cialis without him knowing (perhaps by putting it in his food) and if there is a safe way to do this?
Erectile dysfunction is a serious issue in any relationship that is complex and will require both of you to apply your energies and courage to change. Never fear though, you can work with this situation. If you believe that secretly giving him cialis will result in positive changes to both of your sex lives then perhaps do it. But you will first need to make sure that he will not be negatively affected by using Cialis - and whether or not cialis is likely to be of benefit to him.